
Family dinners at my house are not like you see on television. The perfect family sitting around the table saying grace and talking about how there day went. Dinner is not a very important time of the day for my family. It is merely a time of the day where you get something good to eat. It is not like breakfast or lunch where you whip something up real quick that is somewhat healthy to get you through your day. Dinner is most the time cooked by my mom when she gets home from work. She is a good mother adding all the healthy stuff like vegetables and meat into dinner each night. There are the days where she may say, “it is fend for yourself night”. This is where you find something to eat all on your own. This is typically because my mom had had a long day at work and simply is to exhausted to cook dinner. On these nights I might run out to a fast food place because I have no time to cook dinner. Time is valuable these days and it is really hard to sit down and eat a good meal with your family. I live with my mom and dad. All three of us work and I also go to school at night. When are schedules combine it does not make for an easy dinner time. No matter when dinner is made most the time someone misses out on it. If you miss dinner you warm up a plate when you get home.
Then there are the more important dinners like Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter and etc. My whole family gets together this includes my sisters, brother, nieces, and nephew and we all enjoy each others company. I enjoy smelling all the foods when they get taken out of the oven or off the stove. My mom always makes my favorites sweet potatoes and green bean casserole. Tons of varieties of dishes cover the table. Everyone waits there turn to dish themselves out a plate. My family really doesn’t eat together we sit where we want around the house. The little kids usually at the table so they do not spill on grandma’s carpet. The boys sit next to the blasting television usually watching football. The girls sit together talking about random things that have happened in their lives. Do not get me wrong my family loves each other but eating together is not very important at my house. We have other things we like to do in order to have fun during the holidays. Playing games, decorating, or just sitting and having a good conversation.
Traditions in my life that consist of food is celebrating my birthday. Every year since I can remember I have went to Tampicos a Mexican restaurant. The only thing I ask my mom for my birthday is to go there. It gives me a sense of comfort going there every year. I do not know how I would feel if I missed a year. Sitting there while they put the sombrero on your head and my mom takes pictures of my sister and I. The employees sing happy birthday in Spanish and I do not understand one word but I still love it every time. Then the joy of eating the fried ice cream after the embarrassment is all done with. I love every minute of it.